Brownies For Breakfast

2007-06-16T14:33:00.000-05:00

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ATTITUDE

　　Attitude is more important than the facts. It is more important than the past, than education, than money, than circumstances, than what other people think, or say, or do. It is more important than appearance, giftedness or skill. It will make or break a country, a relationship, a company, a church, a home.

　　The remarkable thing is we have a choice everyday regarding the attitude we will embrace for that day. We cannot change our past. We cannot change the fact that people will act a certain way. We cannot change the inevitability. The only thing we can do is play on the one string we have, and that is our ATTITUDE.

　　Life is 10% how you make it and 90% of how you take it, and so it is with you...we are in charge of our ATTITUDE.

2007-06-12T14:50:00.000-05:00

Self-Confidence: New Friends Magnet Too

A famous actor once said in a commercial: "Self-confidence is very sexy, don't you think?" Of course, he was right.

When you've met someone and felt drawn to what you might call their magnetism, haven't they always projected a sense of self-confidence? They were magnetic because of a strong self-image and were anything but passive.Such magnetism is the very thing that makes some, if not most, people popular. They have lots of friends because their confidence is attractive, even sexy, and draws people to them.

Passive people seldom project that same kind of magnetism. What can you do if you want to make more new friends? Be more self-confident, show people you like yourself and have a good self image.

How? One way is being warm and open when you meet someone and looking them in the eyes. That sounds so simple, but many people do the opposite. They seem cold and their eyes look away because they lack self-esteem. Interestingly, all of the above is true for someone making a speech: you want to project warmth and openness as you approach the speaking platform and look out at your audience.

Passivity screams weak self image, unsure of yourself. Also, every good speaker looks the audience in the eyes, one by one if in a small crowd, but even in a larger group the best speakers connect with their eyes, as well as their voices, thus projecting warmth and self-confidence. That is not only successful, but also sexy, whether you want an audience of 1 or 100 to like and accept you.

2007-06-08T09:38:00.001-05:00

Just what is "Brownies For Breakfast" all about?

Brownies for Breakfast
is about starting your days
with a sweet beginning that will promote
greater self-acceptance and self-confidence,
more joy in your days and more contentment
in life. See what surprises can be ahead for you
each and every day.

To Do List Today
for me and maybe
for you too.

1 Brownies for Breakfast:
that sweet beginning works
for me, but your sweet start
could be quiet time in the
morning, a hot shower, the
sports pages or The Today Show.
But, you need to have just your
special treat to start off your day.

2 Self-confidence inventory: your
own review of just why you can
succeed in this day and how you
are prepared to make things happen.

--------------->>>Also, soon more on importance
of doing a self-confidence inventory, so that you can see
examples of how to make your day the big success you want

2007-06-03T12:58:00.001-05:00

Because success in daily life

and planning a happy, productive day relate to self-esteem and self-confidence, today I am suggesting books closely related to those topics by two of my favorite authors: Gayle and Hugh Prather

Morning Notes by Hugh Prather

The Little Book of Letting Go by Hugh Prather

Shining Through by Hugh Prather

Spiritual Notes to Myself by Hugh Prather

How to Live in the World and Still Be Happy by Hugh Prather

I Will Never Leave You by Gayle and Hugh Prather

Spiritual Parenting by Gayle and Hugh Prather

Notes to Myself by Hugh Prather

and don't miss two blogs that will
show you great photos from around
the world:

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http://waterfallsuplift.blogspot.com
http://dreamy-destinations.blogspot.com
= = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = =

2007-05-28T11:36:00.000-05:00

Beyond Your Self-Confidence List

Self-esteem is how you feel about yourself, how confident you are, how accomplished you feel. It reflects whether a person loves, accepts, and believes in who they are. For some of us, however, it can go up and down. One day you might feel really on top of everything, great about yourself, unafraid to try anything. And the next day, you're just as likely to feel completely at the bottom, unsure of yourself, afraid to say or do anything.

Building high self-esteem is a process, not something you can develop overnight. And this isn't necessarily easy. Yet, every single person has the capacity of high self-esteem. The question is, are you ready to make a commitment to increase your self-esteem?

If your answer is yes, here are some tips to get you started:

1. Stop comparing yourself with other people.

Human beings can amplify or reduce their value by contrasting themselves either positively or negatively with others. But if you play the comparison game, you'll run into too many "opponents" you can't defeat. There will always be some people who have more than you and some who have less. So stop comparing!

2. Stop the critic inside of you.

Some people have a bad habit of putting themselves down often. They say negative things to themselves like, "I'm always late. Why am I such a flake?" or "There you go again, stupid!" So get in the new habit of catching yourself saying critical things about yourself and learn to silence your inner critic. And if this is unavoidable, at least tone down the level of your criticism.

3. Forgive and forget.

Do not waste your time and energy thinking of past hurts. Your time can be wisely spent for other productive things rather than forlorn thoughts. We make mistakes, even when we're trying our best. Sometimes you just have to apologize, let it go and move on.

4. Associate with positive, supportive people.

The "real you" is a magnificent, unique being with enormous potential and capacity for experiencing love of yourself and extending love to others. So keep your interest in life at a high level by being in the company of enthusiastic people. This way, you will get infected by their positive attitude. You will view the world in its full shining glory and move around oozing with energy. In the same manner, it would be wise to stay away from negatively inclined thinkers. When you are surrounded by negative people who constantly put you and your ideas down, your self-esteem is lowered.

5. Get involved in work and activities you love.

It's hard to feel good about yourself if your days are spent in work you hate. Self-esteem flourishes when you are engaged in work and activities that you enjoy and make you feel valuable. And even if you're not in a position to make immediate changes in your career, you can still devote some of your leisure time to enjoyable hobbies or activities.

6. Be true to yourself.

Live your own life - not the life someone decided is best for you. You will never gain your own respect and you will never feel good about yourself if you aren't leading the life you want to lead. So if you're still making decisions based on getting approval from friends and relatives, you aren't being true to yourself and your self-esteem is lowered.

7. Talk affirmatively to others and yourself.

Words carry enough power that can either hurt other people or yourself. Similarly, words can generate enough power to give warmth and comfort. So be conscious of your choice of words. Choose affirmative words when speaking with someone.

8. Quit blaming yourself for mistakes in the past.

Many things in our lives are only minimally in our control, but those of us who develop low self-esteem take the full blame for the resulting negative outcomes. Instead, learn to honor your efforts and give proper credit for things that you have done well. Following a practical approach for managing your self-esteem will prevent it from becoming a problem and keep you off that rollercoaster.

9. Make a long list of your personal breakthroughs.

Think of times when you did something that you thought that never could do but managed to pull off successfully. These breakthroughs can generate an authentic source of never-ending pride in you. Read this list often. While reviewing it, close your eyes and recreate the feelings of satisfaction and joy you experienced when you first attained each success.

10. Make a list of your positive qualities.

Not everyone has your unique abilities and talents. Are you honest? Unselfish? Helpful? Creative? Be generous with yourself and write down at least 20 positive qualities. Again, it's important to review this list often. Most people dwell on their inadequacies and then wonder why their life isn't working out. Start focusing on your positive traits and you'll stand a much better chance of achieving what you wish to achieve.

2007-05-24T21:44:00.000-05:00

To Do List Today
for me and maybe
for you too.

1 Brownies for Breakfast:
that sweet beginning works
for me, but your sweet start
could be quiet time in the
morning, a hot shower, the
sports pages or The Today Show.
But, you need to have just your
special treat to start off your day.

2 Self-confidence inventory: your
own review of just why you can
succeed in this day and how you
are prepared to make things happen.

3 Top 5 reasons you have to be happy
about the opportunities today and how
you intend to bring success to the day.

4 Plan for bringing joy and kindness to
yourself and others because you and
the people you encounter deserve it.

5 Commitment to getting what you want
out of your day and learning to want
what you get out of life today and every day.

Keywords, passwords to lead your day:
sweet beginnings,
success, self-acceptance, self-confidence, joy,
contentment, learning to love your life just as it
is today, and making the most of your opportunities.

2007-05-19T11:01:00.001-05:00

Just what is "Brownies For Breakfast" all about?

Brownies for Breakfast
is about starting your days
with a sweet beginning that will promote
greater self-acceptance and self-confidence,
more joy in your days and more contentment
in life. See what surprises can be ahead for you
each and every day.

To Do List Today
for me and maybe
for you too.

1 Brownies for Breakfast:
that sweet beginning works
for me, but your sweet start
could be quiet time in the
morning, a hot shower, the
sports pages or The Today Show.
But, you need to have just your
special treat to start off your day.

There will be more on how the start to your
day affects your success, joy and contentment.

2 Self-confidence inventory: your
own review of just why you can
succeed in this day and how you
are prepared to make things happen.

2007-05-15T15:56:00.000-05:00

Books to help sweeten your day,
promote success:

The Success Principles: How to Get From Where You Are
to Where You Want to Be (Hardcover)

by Jack Canfield, Janet Switzer

List Price: $24.95

Availability: In Stock. Ships from and sold by Amazon.com.

Jack Canfield, creator of the Chicken Soup for the Soul series, reveals secrets to success with 64 timeless principles in The Success Principles. Get a successful start right now and watch a video featuring Jack Canfield and his words of wisdom on how to transform your life, how to take responsibility, and why his new book is suited for everyone.

From Publishers Weekly

When it comes to success, Canfield knows of what he speaks: he is co-creator, with Mark Victor Hansen, of the seemingly endless Chicken Soup for the Soul series. He presents 64 success principles that he claims "always work"—and draws on his own experience and that of others to illustrate them. Sixty-four principles may seem like a lot, but each receives a concise, easy-to-digest chapter that challenges readers to risk creating their lives exactly as they want them. Many of the principles are familiar—e.g., "Take 100% Responsibility for Your Life"—but Canfield has a nifty way of summarizing them ("Reject rejection"), and some are inventive: "Become an Inverse Paranoid" means see the world as out to help you instead of out to get you. He also offers specific techniques, such as positive-thinking exercises and visualizations.

A section on transformation provides even more on how to overcome self-defeating beliefs, fears and habits. Further sections offer principles on building good teams and better relationships at the office. Canfield acknowledges his predecessors in the success advice field, such as Napoleon Hill, and is also clear that while he gives information, motivation, and inspiration, readers must contribute their own hard work.

Canfield's energy and enthusiasm bounce off the page; many will flock to this inspiring (and very rich) teacher. And those starting off in business or in need of a refresher course may consider this title required reading.
Copyright © Reed Business Information, a division of Reed Elsevier Inc. All rights reserved.

2007-05-06T16:04:00.000-05:00

Because getting what you want
out of your day quite often

relates to self-esteem and self-confidence,

I am suggesting books closely related to those topics by two of my favorite authors:

Gayle and Hugh Prather

Morning Notes by Hugh Prather

The Little Book of Letting Go by Hugh Prather

Shining Through by Hugh Prather

Spiritual Notes to Myself by Hugh Prather

How to Live in the World and Still Be Happy by Hugh Prather

I Will Never Leave You by Gayle and Hugh Prather

Spiritual Parenting by Gayle and Hugh Prather

Notes to Myself by Hugh Prather

2007-05-02T15:17:00.001-05:00

Self-worth and things that
sometimes get in the way

Many of us harbor feelings of fear, guilt, and shame. We see ourselves as flawed and are plagued by critical and contemptuous inner voices. When we allow these voices to determine what we do, we experience deep emotional—and even physical—pain. Our lives become driven by the need to avoid this pain "at all costs,"—which translates into acting out through compulsive behaviors, thereby increasing our shame and guilt.

This cycle of fear, guilt, and shame robs us of our natural enthusiasm for life and its adventures. We no longer set goals that call us forth into greater experiences of ourselves.

We experience less and less satisfaction and therefore diminish our capacity for cheerfulness. We stop living and begin dying.

Today I make a commitment to embrace life with enthusiasm.

2007-04-25T22:34:00.000-05:00

How Success Starts

The famous actress Goldie Hawn once said about her longtime life-partner Kurt Russell and father of one of her sons that he woke up happy every morning. Kurt is a lucky man in many ways, and maybe he doesn't need a brownie for breakfast. Still, some mornings it couldn't hurt.

Doing something special for yourself soon after waking, getting that happy mojo started, specially if you didn't wake up happy, is very important for a successful day. Getting off to the right start and cultivating a happy, purposeful outlook is vital.

Some mornings a brownie for breakfast does it for me, but for many some quiet time, a hot shower, coffee and the newspaper, stretching and/or a run through the neighborhood, any of those could work. Getting the mood right is the first step to planning a successful day, one that keeps the joy of living working for you.

Success involves a plan and the right attitude. So, an inventory is important to catalog reasons why your self-confidence will help you make the day succeed. Some call it counting blessings, but I want to suggest counting recent successes, recent demonstrations of self-confidence to help you build more success today.

If that sounds too easy and glib, put it on your "to do list" every day and see if the discipline of getting your mood happy, maybe even ebullient, and congratulating yourself out loud for recent successes, promising to add more today, doesn't make a big difference. Why not?

People buy from people they like (whether you're selling yourself, a product or your ideas), and someone who shows up happy and self-confident is eminently likeable. Try it and see how good it makes you feel.

2007-04-22T10:57:00.000-05:00

Realistic Self-Confidence
Leads to Real Success

To look at how to have confidence you need to understand that the typical person is always going to have some areas in their life that they are more confident than others.

You can be very athletic and comfortably confident in your athletic abilities while not feeling confident when meeting new people. Chances are you are confident in more ways than you may realize. The key to discovering a realistic self-confidence is to remove some of the false beliefs you may have developed.

1. False Belief:

I believe that to be successful in life I have to be competent in all the important areas of life.

Realistic Belief:

I know that achievement-based thinking is not the true way to feel worthy. I get some satisfaction when I achieve things that I set out to do, but I know that failures have nothing to do with my personal worth. I was born worthy.

2. False Belief:

The past has shown me how to have confidence in myself or not. My past is my most important guidance-system.

Realistic Belief:

As we grow we don't have the same vulnerabilities we did when we were young. You've gained some awareness on what you think should continue to influence you in life. You choose which areas of the past that you'll allow to steer the present, but you don't have to be a slave to the past.

3. False Belief:

Everybody knows that bad things happen more than good things. The good things I do can't be given too much importance with all the bad. People remember the bad so I should, too. Maybe if I concentrate hard enough, I'll have less bad results.

Realistic Belief:

I know that if I win 4 out of 5 times, that dwelling on the one time I lose and how terrible I feel is not a positive outlook. I know I can't win all the time! It's enough for me to do well at something most of the time.

I can use how good it feels to win next time things aren't falling my way, because I know it's only a temporary setback.

Learning how to have confidence has a lot to do with learning how to have a more realistic attitude towards life's ups and downs.

By Peter Murphy

Peter Murphy is a peak performance expert.

2007-04-18T14:46:00.000-05:00

2007-04-11T22:12:00.000-05:00

More thoughts on the To Do List

Last week we looked at the importance
of a "sweet beginning" for your day and
the self-confidence inventory. Both of
these are from the daily "to do list."

Today I want to encourage you to look
at number 3 on the list.

3 Top 5 reasons you have to be happy
about the opportunities today and how
you intend to bring success to the day.

Only you can determine your specific
reasons, but I urge you to think deeply
and come up with appropriate ones.

Think on these as your day is beginning,
and you will find goal setting simpler.

Here are some reasons for happiness that
I have chosen in the form of quotes from
some great minds:

A happy life must be to a great extent a quiet life, for it is only in an atmosphere of quiet that true joy dare live.
- Bertrand Arthur William Russell

Anything you're good at contributes to happiness.
- Bertrand Arthur William Russell

Man needs, for his happiness, not only the enjoyment of this or that, but hope and enterprise and change.
- Bertrand Arthur William Russell

A happy woman is one who has no cares at all; a cheerful woman is one who has cares but doesn't let them get her down.
- Beverly Sills

Happiness is mostly a by-product of doing what makes us feel fulfilled.
- Benjamin Spock

2007-04-07T10:28:00.000-05:00

Brownies for Breakfast

is about starting your days
with a sweet beginning that will promote
greater self-acceptance and self-confidence,
more joy in your days and more contentment
in life. See what surprises can be ahead for you
each and every day.

To Do List Today

for me and maybe
for you too.

1 Brownies for Breakfast:
that sweet beginning works
for me, but your sweet start
could be quiet time in the
morning, a hot shower, the
sports pages or The Today Show.
But, you need to have just your
special treat to start off your day.

2 Self-confidence inventory: your
own review of just why you can
succeed in this day and how you
are prepared to make things happen.

3 Top 5 reasons you have to be happy
about the opportunities today and how
you intend to bring success to the day.

4 Plan for bringing joy and kindness to
yourself and others because you and
the people you encounter deserve it.

5 Commitment to getting what you want
out of your day and learning to want
what you get out of life today and every day.

Keywords, passwords to lead your day:
sweet beginnings,
success, self-acceptance, self-confidence, joy,
contentment, learning to love your life just as it
is today, and making the most of your opportunities.

2007-03-31T09:04:00.000-06:00

Self-Confidence and What Mom Said

Maybe Mom was right about saying "thank you", and likely you would not fail to thank someone for saying or doing something nice for you. Of course not.

Now let's take Mom's advice and apply it to yourself, but in an orderly and organized plan. Not in your head, but with pen and paper, it is time to thank yourself for each recent success.

List your successes and give a star where you succeeded because of your growing self-confidence. Reading that list everyday, perhaps in the morning as you set your goals for the day, is a good idea and the very basis for building more self-esteem and self-confidence.

This is the way to truly believe in yourself by acknowledging on paper each important victory. Doesn't the sport section of any daily paper list all the victories of various teams and then go into detail as to who the most valuable players were in each game?

You are the most valuable player in your life and the daily affirmation of reading your list of successes and reasons for self-confidence will help you battle negative self-talk and grow the deserved esteem you should feel for yourself.

There is no doubt others will notice and be very favorably impressed and more attracted to you. You'll soon be getting even more invitations.

2007-03-26T13:44:00.001-06:00

A Note on Photos

For all who asked about getting photos,
I use free ones from yotophoto, they're
great and then I use

google free pic organizer

PICASA...... you can get that free

by clicking on the link at bottom
of this blog.

You can also click on the
photos to enlarge the picture.

2007-03-24T09:27:00.000-06:00

The photo is of Positano on the fabled Amalfi coast of Italy.

Click on the photo and make it larger.

Vital Self-Esteem Enriches Life

Developing more self-confidence and self-esteem has been a consistent theme of this blog.
There are so many reasons why that is important and why it's the best gift you can give yourself today or any day.

Like winning a race or getting an A+ on a final exam, it just makes you feel good and so much better about yourself. Those good feeling allow you to face the next challenge, problem or opportunity with more strength and self-assurance to insure your next victory.

So, today and in the coming days in this blog we'll develop a plan, a paint by the numbers, if you will, to be certain you are becoming more confident and feeling more self-esteem each day. It will be fun and feel almost as good as winning that race.

First, you should learn to be alert to the self-talk that goes on in your head, as it does in everyone's brain. If the conversation is negative, if you see you're putting yourself down or calling yourself negative names, the stop. Stop when you hear that negativism and oppose it with the facts about your own worthy self. You deserve to love yourself first among all people.

Next, promise yourself to silence the inner critic, which perhaps you learned from too severe parenting or wherever. Oppose that negative self-talk by building yourself up as a coach on a sports team would build up his players in the locker room. Root for your self. Be your own best cheerleader.

More suggestions to come in the next blog, as to how you will learn to admire and appreciate your inner hero and live that for all to see. Why not, it's very attractive. Your friends may think you got a new hair style or started working out more. You will be more attractive for all to see.

2007-03-20T12:09:00.000-06:00

Good Advice

Life is not easy for any of us. But what of that? We must have perseverance and above all confidence in ourselves. We must believe that we are gifted for something and that this thing must be attained. --Marie Curie Polish-French chemist

Confidence is a habit that can be developed by acting as if you already had the confidence you desire to have. --Brian Tracy

Your self-confidence is directly connected to how much you feel you are making a difference in your world. --Brian Tracy

2007-03-16T21:14:00.000-06:00

The Secret to Getting What you Want

The secret to getting what you want out of your day begins
with a clear understanding of what you feel you deserve.

This is based on what we talked about earlier, the importance
of self-respect, self-esteem and self-confidence. All of these
things incline one to feel deserving of the best: joy, kindness
and success.

This is what number 4 on the daily To Do List is all about and
the pursuit of the necessary attitude will be discussed more
later.

It is vital to have a plan for the day's joys and successes and
part of that comes from number 5, where commitment is
mentioned as important to getting what you want each day.

More will be said about this commitment later and how to
achieve it, but the reminder now is to remember that all
have to learn some days to want what they get in life, as
surely as one proceeds to plan and commit to getting, as
much as possible of what one wants.

All of this, of course, begins with a sweet and effective
beginning to each day.

2007-03-12T19:23:00.001-06:00

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about self-esteem and how it relates
to assertiveness and success in life
http://assertivenesssucceeds.blogspot.com
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2007-03-06T12:40:00.000-06:00

2007-03-02T11:09:00.001-06:00

This photo is Lake Louise in Banff Park
in the province of Alberta in Canada.

A Note on Photos

For all who asked about getting photos,
I use free ones from yotophoto, they're
great and then I use

google free pic organizer

PICASA...... you can get that free

by clicking on the link at bottom
of this blog.

Also, you can click on any of
the photos and enlarge them.

2007-02-22T15:26:00.000-06:00

Brownies for Breakfast
is about starting your days
with a sweet beginning that will promote
greater self-acceptance and self-confidence,
more joy in your days and more contentment
in life. See what surprises can be ahead for you
each and every day.

To Do List Today
for me and maybe
for you too.

1 Brownies for Breakfast:
that sweet beginning works
for me, but your sweet start
could be quiet time in the
morning, a hot shower, the
sports pages or The Today Show.
But, you need to have just your
special treat to start off your day.

2 Self-confidence inventory: your
own review of just why you can
succeed in this day and how you
are prepared to make things happen.

3 Top 5 reasons you have to be happy
about the opportunities today and how
you intend to bring success to the day.

4 Plan for bringing joy and kindness to
yourself and others because you and
the people you encounter deserve it.

5 Commitment to getting what you want
out of your day and learning to want
what you get out of life today and every day.

Keywords, passwords to lead your day:
sweet beginnings,
success, self-acceptance, self-confidence, joy,
contentment, learning to love your life just as it
is today, and making the most of your opportunities.

2007-02-18T09:53:00.001-06:00

2007-02-16T07:57:00.000-06:00

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Some really good news:

2 of my blogs were reviewed

on "Critique My Blog" this week,

and here's the review----

Paint some happy trees!

http://browniesforbreakfast.blogspot.com

http://waterfallsuplift.blogspot.com

Both blogs are about positive energy.
The posts are inspiring and thought
provoking and the goal is to help the
reader succeed in life. The photos in
the waterfall blog are great and make
me want to walk right through some
of them to feel the mist. Both blogs are
worth a look as the posts are well written
and helpful.

2007-02-12T14:05:00.001-06:00

and don't miss a new blog:

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fly away with me in your imagination and see
some of the most beautiful places on earth
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2007-02-01T17:47:00.000-06:00

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2007-01-27T18:56:00.000-06:00

The Gift of Facing Adversity

"Sweet are the uses of adversity; which, like the toad, ugly and venomous, wears yet a precious jewel in his head."

History's greatest author and playwright, William Shakespeare, addressed one of the most significant character lessons with his words. Can we become a stronger, better person when the toad of adversity hops along our life road? Adults who are guiding their children to become kids of character will teach their youngsters not to be afraid of the toad when he appears on their life path.

By the time we are seven years old, we learn that there are two strategies we can use when we face adversity - we can run away or walk with adversity. The first strategy invites endless pain; the second brings self-confidence and life skill development.

For youngsters who are not taught to handle adversity by parents, grandparents and teachers, running away often takes the form of ignoring a problem. Examples: I am having problem with a class at school; I am having problem with a friend; I am having a problem with being fearful.

Response: I look away from the problem, believing that if I ignore my problem, it will simply go away.

The toad of adversity is tough. When he's on your road he hops into different parts of your life. He doesn't go away. If you turn your back on the toad, he invites more of his friends to jump on your path with him.

Kids of character learn to communicate with the toad of adversity.

Said precisely, kids of character manage their problems; they do not ignore or run from them. A kid gains self confidence and self respect when he sees the adversity toad and catches it.

Kids who grab hold of their problem moments, with the help of the adult mentors in their life, are kids who mature into responsible adults.

Why? Because these kids discover what author, Richard Bach, describes as the secret of the precious jewel in the toad's head: "There is no such thing as a problem without a gift; You embrace problems because you need their gifts."

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and don't miss two blogs that will
help neck, back and shoulder pain:

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http://backbebetter.blogspot.com
http://achingbackrelaxed.blogspot.com
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fly away with me in your imagination and see
some of the most beautiful places on earth
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2006-12-21T14:44:00.000-06:00

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Please take a look at a
brand new blog and leave
a comment, if you like.

I hope you will enjoy the
photos and the ads and
will come back often.

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Another blog of mine
was just reviewed by a blog
called Flock Entrprize:

Blog Critique #5

Aching Back Relaxed

Got some sore pains in the middle of your back that your just dying to get rid of? Dont know what to do or how to treat it? Just visit this blog and you will find out all the information you need to know from a 10 year profesional. Just sitting and reading some of the posts makes me want to keep up with this blog and try out some of the ways to relieve pain. Onto the template of the blog, I like how you have put you own mix into the sidebars and have even put in some google ads. It all looks pretty decent, except for the one small long and skinny Ad which with Firefox createst a horizontal scroll bar, which I'm not really a fan of. Mixing it up with Amazon and some other ads for other sites brings a cool look. Some of the alternating colors in the posts I'm also not really a fan of, but if that floats you boat than make sure to bring the paddle. Overall I like the site and its unique flavor and content. A job well done.

2006-11-15T20:01:00.000-06:00

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http://waterfallsuplift.blogspot.com

2006-11-12T17:36:00.000-06:00

2006-11-12T14:12:00.000-06:00

Some really good news:

2 of my blogs were reviewed

on "Critique My Blog" this week,

and here's the review----

Paint some happy trees!

http://browniesforbreakfast.blogspot.com

http://waterfallsuplift.blogspot.com

2006-11-10T11:04:00.000-06:00

2006-11-05T20:02:00.000-06:00

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Please take a look at these sites

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http://waterfallsuplift.blogspot.com

Both blogs are about positive energy.
The posts are inspiring and thought
provoking and the goal is to help the
reader succeed in life.

2006-11-05T18:07:00.000-06:00

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2006-11-02T15:01:00.000-06:00

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2006-10-30T10:04:00.000-06:00

2006-10-28T11:43:00.000-05:00

Some really good news:

2 of my blogs were reviewed

on "Critique My Blog" this week,

and here's the review----

Paint some happy trees!

http://browniesforbreakfast.blogspot.com

http://waterfallsuplift.blogspot.com

2006-10-26T13:59:00.000-05:00

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Please take a look at 2 new sites.

I think you'll find them unique,
colorful, great photos, and fresh
ideas that might just make your day.

http://waterfallsuplift.blogspot.com

http://browniesforbreakfast.blogspot.com

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Because self-confidence and successful living

relate to self-esteem and self-image,

today I am suggesting books closely related to those topics by two of my favorite authors:

Gayle and Hugh Prather

Morning Notes by Hugh Prather

The Little Book of Letting Go by Hugh Prather

Shining Through by Hugh Prather

Spiritual Notes to Myself by Hugh Prather

How to Live in the World and Still Be Happy by Hugh Prather

I Will Never Leave You by Gayle and Hugh Prather

Spiritual Parenting by Gayle and Hugh Prather

Notes to Myself by Hugh Prather

Please Note:

I now have 3 blogs and I hope you will take a look
at all of them and you will find them of help.---

http://assertivenesssucceeds.blogspot.com ---about self-esteem and how it relates to assertiveness and success in life

http://closingsalessuccessfully.blogspot.com ---about steps successful salespeople use to close more sales

http://successful-nofear-speaking.blogspot.com ---about eliminating fear of public speaking and being a more polished speaker

2006-09-08T17:36:00.000-05:00

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2006-09-08T16:16:00.000-05:00

Brownies For Breakfast

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Blog Critique #5

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